I think one of the biggest issues women have when it comes to climaxing and enjoying sex is RELAXING and HAVING UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS. We tend to bring our worries into the bedroom. Sex is natures release. It produces oxytocin which makes you happy and reduces stress. Sex can be a very emotional And spiritual act that makes you want to commit or it can just be sex. You get your release and you move on with your day.
I think some of us get wrapped up in finding this spiritual connection people preach about soo much that we forget to enjoy sex. I’m not saying we need to have sex with no feelings but I am saying you should enjoy it.
Sex gets better with communication. If you think you’re going to find that spark you dreamt about when you were 17 with every partner you attract then I’m here to tell you “you’re not being realistic”.
So for the ladies that are not enjoying sex because they are following a spiritual trend instead enjoying and communicating with the men you choose to sleep with… I need you to relax, free your mind of the complication, and give your partner another chance. Men don’t know your vagina like a book. They have a penis not a pumpum so it’s your job to communicate your sexual needs to them and allow them to love you respectably. Just because he doesn’t know all your chakras doesn’t mean he’s not a good man. How about you teach him what you know. We will attract all kinds of men in our lives;The good and the bad that hides behind your dream man qualities. Everything that is spiritual is not gold. Get your mind ready for the real world.
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